Gregor von Rezzori’s 1989 memoir,
originally published in German, portrays his family during a momentous period
of European history. He was born in 1914
at his mother’s estate in Bukovina, which at that time was in the Austro-Hungarian
Empire. He lived for his first few years
in Czernowitz, the provincial capital, his family belonging to that class of
administrators any large-scale colonial enterprise requires for its smooth
operation. The First World War forced
the family to leave Czernowitz for Trieste, then Austria, before they could
return to their home city.
In 1919, following the Empire’s collapse,
Bukovina was occupied by Romania, becoming Cernăuți. Rezzori and his German-speaking family lost
their status and became outsiders in their own country, disliked and treated
with a measure of suspicion by Romanian authorities keen to flex their
nationalist muscles. His parents’
upper-class attitudes were archaic in a society alien to the one they had
known, yet ironically they were considered outsiders in Austria because of
their provincial background, their existence a reminder of humiliating defeat.
Then further upheaval took place with the
Russian occupation in 1940 and the eventual partition of Bukovina between
Romania and the Ukrainian SSR, Cernăuți becoming Chernivtsi. The city, diverse before the Second World
War, had hummed with a multi-ethnic vibrancy that was lost after the upheavals
of conflict and ethnic cleansing, along with its particular sense of identity.
The book, subtitled ‘Portraits for an
Autobiography’, is structured as a series of five sketches of individuals that
combine to provide a group portrait of Rezzori’s family and their influences on
his life. In their combination we learn
about him, as the narrative moves back and forth through the decades, treating
each in turn.
His mother was physically attractive but
self-absorbed, insisting early in her marriage that her delicate health
required regular cosseting away from her husband in the Alps and in Egypt. She was interfering and overprotective of her
young children, perpetually disappointed by life, her loss of status, and
particularly by her two husbands, both of whom she divorced, though the second
seems to have been a perfectly decent man.
Having been brought up in a culture where roles were predetermined, hence
her marriage to an unsuitable first husband, father of her children, she struggled
to adapt to the loss of certainty that came with the changing situation in
Europe.
Father was obstinate, distant emotionally,
unfaithful and often away from home. While anti-Semitic, he possessed an
aristocratic disdain for the petit-bourgeois Nazis. He was an obsessive hunter and murderer of
wildlife on a massive scale. Yet he was
cultivated and worked for the Romanian Orthodox Church, advising on the
preservation of artefacts. He may have favoured
his daughter, but some of Rezzori’s happiest childhood moments were spent in
his company.
His sister was four years older, and while
he loved her she overshadowed him growing up, and he could only look on with
envy at her easy intelligence, certainty about life, and the companionable rapport
she enjoyed with their father. She was
always careful to remind Rezzori of her seniority and her memories of early
family travails he could not have known at the time. Her memory was preserved by her death at the
age of 22, falling ill despite her mother’s neurotic worries about childhood
ailments. Rezzori was robbed of any
opportunity to become her equal, leaving her memory as a yardstick for all his
future actions.
In addition to his immediate family, he
bookends the chapters with portraits of two individuals who had a significant
influence as mother surrogates. Cassandra,
his nursemaid, was of uncertain origins, uneducated, speaking a mishmash of
languages that could barely be understood, and was so earthy they had to burn
her clothes when she arrived. More
authentic than his blood relatives, she transmitted a love of folk tales to her
young charge and anchored him, until he outgrew her.
Finally, there was Mrs Strauss, known as
Bunchy, the warm, nurturing Pomeranian governess who had once been a friend of
Mark Twain’s. A gifted teacher who
inspired lifelong devotion in her charges, she was able to manage the Rezzori family
adroitly. She gave Gregor the necessary
perspective to assist his development as a young man.
In recalling the group, Rezzori’s memories
range from amused and affectionate to exasperated, overlaid with melancholy, as
summed up in the title derived from François Villon’s Ballade des dames du
temps jadis. He is detached when writing
about his parents, ambivalent when writing about his sister, and warm when
writing about Cassandra and Bunchy. The
sections devoted to his family members are only headed with their family
relationships to Gregor (‘The Father’, ‘The Mother’, The Sister’), while those
devoted to Cassandra and Bunchy are headed by their names.
Family dynamics, notably his parents’
unsatisfactory marriage, intersect with larger political forces, particularly
the growth of Nazism. They were a
damaged family in damaged times. Rezzori
charts how his family coped after the First World War, but there is always in
the background the knowledge of the dramatic changes a new war and its
aftermath will bring. A sense of loss
pervades the book, both personal and geographically, his family dispersed or
dead, their fortunes declining. The
glowing quality to the account of his childhood throws later events into
relief.
There is a stylistic unity to the memoir until
the end, when he recounts a visit to Chernivtsi as an old man. In 1989 he was able to return for the first
time since 1936. Describing his trip in
an epilogue, he sees fewer physical changes have occurred in the intervening
years than he had expected; but with the loss of the minorities and the
establishment of its unambiguously Ukrainian identity there is a dullness in place
of the vibrancy he remembered.
But then, what place can ever compare with
the mythic quality with which we imbue our childhood? Rezzori concedes he had invented his own
Czernowitz, and nostalgia brings disappointment in its wake. In these last pages literalness crashes into
the delicate web of reminiscences of a lost age he had woven. While Rezzori stared at a new world and
struggled to map the city onto the one he had conjured up in his mind, his
vivid description of the old has brought it alive for the reader and ensured it
will endure forever on the page.